How I’m Staying Active During The Holidays

Progress over Perfection!

Squeezing in time for working out has been quite challenging since having my baby this past summer. My time is just not the same. It can be even more of a struggle during the holidays. This time of year can be crazy busy between traveling, holiday get-togethers, and all the things sitting on our never-ending to-do lists. For those times when I just need to get started to build momentum I’ve kept the mantra “progress over perfection” close to me. I am just about 10 pounds over my pre-pregnancy weight and although I don’t mind the extra fluff I just haven’t felt my best. I don’t have a goal to lose weight. My goal is simply to move my body and reap the benefits of a good sweat session. Moving my body for at least 30 minutes per day as of right now is the goal.

Here’s a peek at a few ways I am staying active during the holidays.

Schedule My Workouts

I live and breathe by my calendar, and I find that when my workouts are scheduled they are more likely to happen. I have set aside Tuesday, Thursday and Saturdays as my core workout days. I get on my peloton bike for a 30-45 minute ride session or I may do another form of cardio followed by a bit of weight lifting. The other days I try to sneak in some light yoga or stretching for 20-30 minutes before bed.

Accountability Buddy

Having an accountability partner is motivating! Let’s be honest, unless working out is part of your daily lifestyle it can be a struggle to stick with it. On busy days or when I just don’t feel like it, it’s helpful to have someone in my corner encouraging and reminding me of my goal.

Get Creative

I have to switch things up, otherwise I get bored. This goes for my workouts and even my workout gear. I have long ditched the gym membership but I do have the peloton app - I have access to all kinds of different workouts like cycling, running, yoga and strength training so I can keep it interesting without getting bored. A change of scenery is also great. I take my workout outdoors when it’s not too cold.

Prioritize Progress Over Perfection

I swear this is my life mantra! I pretty much apply it to all parts of my life from business to relationships to fitness to parenting. There are so many days, especially this time of year when a full-body workout just isn’t going to happen. On those days, I prioritize something over nothing. Most of the time, that looks like a 20 minute walk around the block with Reggie (my husband) and Braxton (my 6 month old). The most important thing is that I just get my body moving!

Athleisure: Lululemon

Up Your Investing Game With NFTs

For some months all I kept hearing about was an online piece of work called an NFT. If you have been living under a rock you more than likely have no clue what I am talking about. In the cryptocurrency space it is all the rave right now! But what are they?? According to coinbase, NFTs (or “non-fungible tokens”) are a special kind of cryptoasset in which each token is unique — as opposed to “fungible” assets like Bitcoin and dollar bills, which are all worth exactly the same amount. Because every NFT is unique, they can be used to authenticate ownership of digital assets like artworks, recordings, and virtual real estate.

Non-fungible - What is that?

Non-fungible means that something is unique and cannot be replaced with something else. Bitcoin, for example, is worth as much as every other bitcoin. A dollar bill, is worth exactly one dollar. “Fungibility” refers to goods or assets that are all the same and can be swapped interchangeably.

NFTs on the other hand are unique and cannot be swapped interchangeably. Concert tickets are non-fungible. Even if every Drake concert ticket is the same price, they aren’t directly exchangeable. Each represents a specific seat and a specific date — no other ticket will have those exact characteristics.

The reason why they are such a big deal is because they are appreciable assets, you can buy and hold or you can buy and sell these digital assets for a lot of money! Some of the more recognizable ones on the marketplace have come from projects by Bored Apes and Crypto Punks - earlier this year the Crypto Punk NFT(crypto punk 7524 aka Covid Alien) shown below sold at Sotheby’s for 11.75 million!! The creator put them up for auction, starting at $100 and the winning bid was astronomical.

This NFT titled Everydays: The first 500 days by Beeple was put up for auction at Christie’s starting at $100 and sold for $69million!!

The below NFT, also by Beeple was purchased for $66K and sold for $6.6 million - 10 times the purchase price!

Why are NFTs Important?

You can think of NFTs as being kind of like certificates of authenticity for digital artifacts. They’re currently being used to sell a huge range of virtual collectibles, including:

• NBA virtual trading cards 

• Music and video clips

• Video art

• Digital art

• Virtual real estate (in a place called Decentraland) 

As with Bitcoin and other crypto that has boomed in popularity over the last year, NFTs have also soared — growing to an estimated 7 billion. Each NFT is stored on an open blockchain (often Ethereum’s) and anyone interested can track them as they’re created, sold, and resold. Because they use smart contract technology, NFTs can be set up so that the original artist continues to earn a percentage of all subsequent sales (royalties). 

I am a new comer to the NFT space and only purchased my first in September of this year. Some NFTs that I have personally invested in are from Boss Beauties, World of Women, Women Rise and Alpha Girl Club. I purchased a Women and Weapons NFT for 0.175 ETH which is roughly $700 USD and have gotten a few offers, the best so far being for 1.18 ETH which is roughly $5000 USD. I have not sold it - I will be holding on to it for now or until I get a much better offer. The reason I chose to invest in some of the above NFTs is because they embody a cause or a mission that I can get behind. For example, Boss Beauties has a mission to educate and empower the next generation of Women and Girls through scholarships and mentorship programs.

Tweet from Reese W.

A recent tweet from Reese Witherspoon on NFTs and the need for more women to take up space in this arena. Reese is also one that I follow on Twitter as she is part of the large NFT twitter community.

How to Purchase NFTs

NFTs are bought and sold through an NFT marketplace built specifically to handle the blockchain transaction. NFTs can cost anywhere from a few dollars to millions of dollars for a digital asset thanks to the scarcity model. To buy NFTs, you must have a cryptocurrency and seek out a purchase through an investment marketplace. Most NFTs are sold on the Ethereum blockchain, meaning you must have the cryptocurrency Ethereum to purchase. Another crypto that’s used to purchase some NFTs is Solana (Sol).

Here’s how I purchase my NFTs:

You will need the cryptocurrency Ethereum (ETH) to purchase NFTs. I purchase all my cryptocurrencies on Coinbase. If you use my referral link to purchase your first $100 worth of crypto you will get $10 worth of Bitcoin. You will also need a wallet, such as the coinbase wallet or metamask and a marketplace to purchase your NFT on, such as Opensea.

1. Create an Opensea account - Go tot the website opensea.io and create an account. After which you can connect your crypto wallet to OpenSea, edit your profile, and begin interacting in the space. Here’s a video on how to open an account.

2. Connect your wallet - A crypto wallet, such as coinbase wallet or metamask, stores your Ethereum and processes transactions on the Ethereum blockchain. A unique wallet address will be generated and you will use this address to complete transactions. Here’s a short video on how to connect a wallet to your opensea account - in this case it shows how to connect a metamask wallet, but any wallet you choose will be set up in the same way.

3. Fund your wallet with Ethereum - You can get ETH, the digital currency that fuels transactions on the Ethereum blockchain, from a digital currency exchange like Coinbase. You will need ETH to "mint,” create and purchase an NFT.

4. Research available NFTs on Opensea - You'll want to choose an NFT that you feel has an upside value potential. The NFT can be some art, music, video, or even an item within a video game. You can even search Google or Twitter for NFTs. When looking at the upcoming NFTs, note when the sale is, what the cryptocurrency requirements are, and how many of the NFT are being sold. This helps you better understand the scarcity behind the NFT you are choosing. I am a member of an NFT community where these are talked about all day and I am also involved with a number of NFT communities on twitter (the only reason I am currently on that platform).

5. Bid on or Purchase your NFT - Make sure that there is enough crypto to conduct the transaction including any relevant fees. Fees can include the costs of purchasing and transferring cryptos, converting one crypto into another, and gas fees(amount it costs to process the transaction). When the NFT is purchased, it is stored in a crypto wallet on the same blockchain, on a different blockchain, or in decentralized storage. Mine are stored in my coinbase and metamask wallets.

*Coinbase will launch it’s own NFT platform in Q1 of 2022, I will more than likely switch from opens when that happens*

This information is so new that it can come off very confusing. It’s an entirely new world and a new way of operating and owning assets that it is like a foreign language when getting into it for the first time. There is so much to learn and the information given in this blog post only scratches the surface. Be sure to educate yourself and do your research before investing in any NFT. I can’t wait to see how this shapes the future.

Change is Here!

Another tweet from Reese - everything is changing and we must move with the times in order to not get left behind. Investing in the stock market is great and I encourage that but there’s a new way of investing that is not yet mainstream that in my opinion, we ought to get involved in NOW.

An Organized Life Is A Balanced Life

I speak frequently on my efforts at leading a fulfilled and balanced life. Truth be told, it’s a constant work in progress. One of the ways I am able to achieve a semblance of this is through Organization. I consider myself pretty organized, but that hasn’t always been the case. I think the more responsibilities you gain, the more you grow as a person and the more hectic your life gets, organization becomes quite possibly the only way to consistently perform well in all areas of your life. Really organized people are not always born that way, they have to cultivate healthy habits, which then help them to stay organized.

Here are some habits I have cultivated to become organized. Take what you need:

1. Write Things Down

We all know someone that remembers every birthday and sends cards for every holiday. It’s not magic and they don’t use memorization. Trying to remember things will not help you to stay organized. Try writing things down. Did you know that when you write things down you’re 42% more likely to do/achieve them?!

You will only further complicate your life by trying to contain important dates and reminders in your head. I write down everything: shopping lists for groceries, important dates like meetings and birthdays - everything!

2. Make Schedules and Deadlines

Keeping things organized goes hand-in-hand with staying productive. Well-organized people make and keep schedules for the day, week and even months. They make deadlines and set goals. And most importantly, they stick to them! 

3. Don’t Procrastinate

The longer you wait to do something, the more difficult it will be to get it done. If you want your life to be less stressful and less demanding, then organize as soon as you can. Putting in the effort to get things done as soon as possible will lift the weight off of you from doing it later.

4. Give Everything a Home

Keeping your life organized means keeping your things in their proper places. Organized people keep order by storing things properly and by labeling storage spaces. You can make easy-to-access storage spaces for things you use all the time, and de- clutter often.

5. Declutter Regularly

Find time each week to organize. Highly organized people make sure they find time every week or more to organize their things. Stuff does not stay organized on its own; it needs to be reorganized continuously and consistently.

6. Keep Only What You Need

More stuff means more clutter. People who live organized lives only keep what they need and what they really really want. Having fewer things also means that you enjoy those things more and feel better about using everything you own, rather than letting half of what you own collect dust.

Have you ever felt like you don’t have the space to keep all the stuff you own? Instead of renting a storage unit or buying a larger home, get rid of some things.

7. Delegate Responsibilities

A really organized life is not overfilled with responsibilities, meetings and deadlines. In fact, it has less because things that create stress have been slowly organized out. One great way I stay organized is by delegating things to others that I don’t have to do myself.

Start becoming more organized today by creating a plan. Begin the planning process with a planner. Grab the 2022 Goal Planner below and get to it! Begin the new year with a clear, organized action plan:

Give the Gift of a Healthy Smile

No gift guide is complete without oral care goodies and it just so happens that some of my favorite oral care brands are having major sales this holiday season. I’ve rounded a few up for you and linked them below. Click through for the savings. They make great stocking stuffers!

Goby - I love Goby’s electric toothbrushes and even carry them in my practice. Every new patient gets a goodie bag with oral care goodies along side a brand new Goby toothbrush. This holiday they are having a great sale on their brush kits. 10% off 1 brush kit, 20% off 2 brush kits, 30% off 3 brush kits. When the sales end you can always get $10 off any order with code: UNORTHODOC10. They make great Christmas gifts.

Hello - Everyone loves Hello products and you can guarantee to find something that tickles your fancy. Choose from sensitivity toothpastes, to whitening, to all natural and even fun kids flavors! Toothpaste isn’t the only thing they have either - think mouthwash, lip balm, deodorant and more. They are having 25% off their bundles until November 30th.

Quip - If you’ve known me for a while you know my love for quip and their super stylish and sleek designs. Quip is a travel essential for me. I keep the quip toiletry bag with quip goodies including an electric toothbrush, tooth paste, floss pick, and mouth wash in my suitcase! You get $10 off when you spend $50, $50 off when you spend $150 and $75 off when you spend $200. Use code: BF2021 at checkout.

Cocofloss - I LOVE Cocofloss and so do all my patients! They make flossing so much fun with all the yummy flavors. They’re having a 25% off sale + free shipping when you spend at least $20. Use code: BLACKFRIDAY. If you catch this post after black Friday, the code: UNORTHODOC will get you 20% off. These make the best and most fun stocking stuffers!

Keeko - All natural dental care? sign me up! I especially love their biodegradable toothbrushes, their coconut floss and the copper tongue scraper. These make great stocking stuffers. use code: BLACKFRIDAY for 25% off. After the holidays use code: UNORTHODOC10 for 10% off.

Risewell - This isn’t pictured but if you’re looking for non-fluoride products (they use nano-hydroxyapatite instead) then these are great! Use code: SAVE15 for 15% off site wide. After the holidays use UNORTHODOC10 for 10% off site wide.

I just love the holidays for all the gift giving and receiving! Did I tell you I gave quip kits as wedding favors? (along with some other really nice things). True story. The dentist in me had to do it.

Happy shopping!

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Tax Write-Offs For New Business Owners

As a new business owner, you may not know all the tax write-offs available to you. I sure did not, but with the help of my trusted CPA I am getting more and more familiar the more seasoned I become. I am going to share with you a few that I have come to know quite well over the last several months.

But first, What is a write-off anyway? A write-off is an accounting action that reduces the value of an asset while simultaneously debiting a liabilities account. It is primarily used in its most literal sense by businesses seeking to account for unpaid loan obligations, unpaid receivables, or losses on stored inventory. Generally, it can also be referred to broadly as something that helps to lower an annual tax bill.

Here are 5 Write-Offs to take advantage of if you’re a business owner:

1. Startup And Organizational Costs

As a new business owner, there are certain costs associated with getting started in business called startup and organizational costs. Be sure to keep a record of these deductions because the IRS allows you to write off up to $5,000 worth of startup expenses made in the first year of business. If you spend more than $5,000 in your business the first year, the amount in excess would be considered amortized expenses and is able to be written off over the course of 180 months. So until your business is considered “operational” you are not able to take 100% of your expenses but are limited to $5,000 worth of expenses.

2. Equipment Costs 

As a business owner, you have the ability to write off your equipment. This is a no-brainer if you are a dental professional. Even If you purchase items through Amazon or other stores of the sort for products and equipment, as long as those expenses are considered business equipment costs and not personal expenses, you can receive a tax deduction for it. At the beginning of my business, what became really important to me was that anything eligible I spent my money on was being written off by my business.

3. Business Meals 

Thanks to the Tax Relief Bill that was implemented by the Trump administration as well as the Biden administration you are able to deduct 100% of your meals in the year 2021 as long as there was a business purpose for the meal. So, if you choose to conduct business in a restaurant or you are ordering food for the office, your business-related meals are now 100% deductible - hello dinner team meetings! Make sure that you keep a record of your business meals as well as the purpose of the meal. 

4. Your Vehicle 

If you saw this post you know that I am writing off my vehicle since I use it for my business. If you have a vehicle that you are using for a business, it's so important to understand how to take a vehicle deduction and how to properly depreciate your vehicle. There are two ways to go about writing off your vehicle, you can

1. choose to depreciate your vehicle (e.g., taking the purchase amount of your car and writing it off over the course of five years) or you can

2. choose to take mileage - the mileage is helpful if you drive frequently since there is a set amount, 57.5 cents, that you can deduct per mile of a business-related trip.

When you are depreciating your vehicle you are also able to write off all the expenses associated with that vehicle. When it comes to purchasing new vehicles, you might want to look at buying one that meets specifications (such as weighing more than 6,000 pounds). If a vehicle meets the criteria, including being used for business purposes more than 50% of the time, you may be able to deduct the entire purchase price of the vehicle – financed or not – in the year the car was purchased. What this means is, if you are someone who is in need of a new vehicle for work, you can purchase it and write off 100% of your vehicle purchase amount, whether you make a down payment on the car to finance or if you paid cash. Lastly, you can also write off a leased vehicle's car payments through the business. However, when you are leasing a vehicle you are not able to take the depreciation deduction.

5. Place Your Children On Payroll

Braxton is not of age just yet, but when he is I will definitely be putting him on payroll. If you have children that can do tasks that are ordinary and necessary for your business, this is a great time to grow money for your kids tax-free. Many of us know the benefits of having a Roth IRA and that children can have Roth IRAs, but many taxpayers aren't sure as to how to go about growing tax-free dollars for their children while leveraging a business. When you decide to put your children on payroll, there are no payroll taxes you have to pay on the amounts. You can pay your child up to the standard deduction, which is $12,400, without your child needing to file a tax return. Now as a business owner, you get a $12,400 deduction for putting your child on payroll, without having to file a tax return, and no payroll taxes get paid. On the backend, you can also set up a Roth IRA for your children, place them on payroll and fund the Roth IRA through the payroll #WIN. 

Since becoming a business owner, my mindset towards money and taxes have completely shifted. When you are a business owner, you should always be thinking about how you can leverage savings on the things that you are already spending money on. You should definitely speak with your CPA or trusted tax advisor to ensure you are leveraging your business the right way.

Hospital Bag Packing List

I have been meaning to write this post for several months now. For a minute I thought it wasn’t necessary since I delivered my baby 5+ months ago but after receiving a few direct messages on Instagram asking what I included in my hospital bag I decided to just go ahead and put it together. So, this is for the mama’s to be who will be delivering their little bundle of joy in the near future and just want a little clarification on the necessities. It was really fun reminiscing on those preggo days getting ready for when the inevitable contractions would hit but I should mention that you really don’t need much at the hospital. They have EVERYTHING that you actually “need” – and they have plenty of it! But there are a few things that might be nice to bring to make the hospital feel a little more comforting. With that in mind, let’s get into what my hospital bag looked like!

My Hospital Bag

When packing for the hospital, first just think of it like you’re packing to go on a little trip for a few nights. Mentally go through what you’d want to have while away from home. This would include basic things like your wallet (and insurance information), a change of clothes, PJ’s and anything you would like to have to freshen up! Don’t overthink it!

I used my away Away carry-on as my hospital luggage because it’s easy to roll around, lightweight and perfect for the things I needed without having to purchase another bag. I have it in aluminium. I used one side for my stuff and the other side for baby Braxton’s stuff.

Packing list For Mom

I will say again, the hospital has everything you need so you could honestly show up empty handed and be fine. But, there are some things that are nice to have for your own comfort and others that are pretty self explanatory. I will list everything I packed below because I know how helpful it can be. I know I wanted this list when I was in your shoes!

The Basics

• Toiletries - This is a no-brainer. Pack your toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, hair brush, hair ties and anything else you would put in your toiletry bag. Some hospitals might have a few of these and a blow dryer if you need it but in my opinion you won’t have time or even be thinking about washing your hair after baby arrives.

• Glasses, contacts, contact solution – I recently had Lasik so I no longer need these but at the time of my delivery I couldn’t see a thing without my glasses (or contacts), so I was sure to grab those before leaving the house.

• Cleansing Wipes – I was in labor for about 11 hours and felt icky throughout. You don’t need it, but wipes came in handy for me to wipe the sweat away.

• Night gown – I absolutely love this night gown and even still wear mine from time to time. It has buttons down the front that make it easy to breastfeed. Keep in mind that you might want something with easy snaps/buttons so you can breastfeed or pump (if that’s what you’re wanting to do).

• Robe – You don’t absolutely need one but hospitals tend to be a bit cold. If you’re cold-natured like me a robe may help keep you warm and cozy. You’re gonna need all the TLC you can get post delivery.

• Slippers/Flip Flops – You may want to venture out of your room to get snacks, ice or simply go for a walk. You can even use it in the shower. I personally didn’t like standing in the hospital’s shower barefoot.

• Post-partum underwear – The hospital has mesh underwear that you wear over your post-partum pads (so sexy). Your regular underwear will not fit over those pads. I personally preferred my Frida mom post-partum undies as they were full coverage and comfortable. They came as part of the Frida mom post-partum kit. If that’s not your jam these high-waisted ones are quite nice and secure. I wore these a couple days after being home.

• Nursing Bras – I got a pack from amazon and they were great. I got some others that were very similar and wore them for several months post-partum.

• Nipple cream – The hospital will have some but you might want to bring your own just in case. I didn’t end up using it much in the hospital; but really needed it once I got home.

• Phone charger with a long cord to keep your phone charged. You and dad will be taking lots of pictures and videos of your little bundle.

• Snacks – If you have favs it’s helpful to pack them. The hospital where I gave birth had really good food and snacks so I didn’t need to pack my own. I remember being extremely hungry after delivery so you will want to eat!

• Going home outfit & shoes – Pack a going home outfit that would fit your 4-6 month baby bump (if you can remember that). You will still have a pooch post delivery so pack accordingly.

Post-partum

As far as postpartum things like pads and peri bottle, I really feel like that’s unnecessary since the hospital will give you plenty! They truly do have everything you need. Nevertheless I still packed the Frida mom kit that comes with a nursing gown, socks, peri bottle, ice maxi pads, disposable underwear, perineal foam and a few other things. I used up all the items given to me by the hospital (I even had more left over for when I got home). I depleted this before using the items from my Frida mom kit. I especially loved how soothing the Ice Maxi pads and perineal foam were.

Packing list For Baby

Once again, the hospital has and will give you everything you need. However, I felt better taking baby’s own things to use. Here’s all I packed for Braxton:

• Receiving blankets/swaddles - I really love these swaddles and so did Braxton! A lot of fun colors to choose from this brand. We still use this personalized blanket and it is Braxton’s favorite.

• Newborn diapers and wipes - You will get more than enough diapers at the hospital but if there is a brand hat you love take those with you. I loved the Dyper brand as well as Huggies for both diapers and wipes.

• Pacifiers & Pacifier Clips - Your baby has entered a whole new world and might be fussy so pacifiers can he helpful to soothe. Braxton was particular fussy after his first shots.

• Baby formula - My milk production wasn’t the best at the hospital so as to not have Braxton starve I supplemented with formula. Pack some just in case, you never know! The hospital does have these however so If you don’t pack some and end up needing it you will be taken care of.

• Infant car seat - You will not be allowed to leave the hospital without an infant car seat. Have your significant other bring this to the hospital room with you on the day of discharge. The doona is great as it is an all-in-one stroller and car seat.

• 1-2 going home outfits – Make sure it’s an outfit with legs so baby can fit in a car seat. If you have room, maybe pack a few different sizes? The outfits we brought for Braxton were HUGE on him.

• Socks for keeping baby’s feet warm.

• Hat – To keep baby’s head warm. You will get some at the hospital but sometimes you want your own.

Packing list For Dad

Since Dad will be in the hospital just as long as you are, make sure he packs a bag too! He just needs his usual toiletries, some clean clothes and underwear, and then a going-home outfit. Plus, the usual things like wallet, phone charger, etc. Reggie mostly wore sweatpants and comfy clothes while we were at the hospital so that he could stay as comfortable as possible. Here’s his list:

• Lounge clothes for wearing around the hospital

• Toiletry bag with toiletries- toothbrush, toothpaste, hairbrush and perhaps a razor for beard/head trimming.

• Underwear and pajamas

• Robe, Slippers/slides for wearing around the room

• Going home outfit and shoes

• Phone charger, wallet

• Headphones – not necessary but might be nice for him to have for those moments when mommy and baby are asleep.

• Blanket & Pillow – The couch/bed they put your husband on isn’t great and it might be nice for him to have his own blanket and a pillow. These are not necessary but adds a layer of comfort.

If you’re a mom to be, rest assured that everything will be fine! If you don’t have the things on this list that is totally okay because the hospital will have it all. Wishing you a safe delivery and a speedy recovery period.

Next Investing Step: Cryptocurrencies

Updated January 3, 2022

If you’ve been here for a while you know Investing is one of my favorite topics. I did a mini series of blog posts a while back and many found them quite beneficial. If you missed them here they are:

Investing 101: Invest In Yourself

Setting Up Your First Investment Account

How To Start Investing In The Stock Market

6 Questions To Ask Before Investing

6 Tips on Getting Into Real Estate Investing

5 Ways To Invest in Real Estate

Before diving in, I want to preface by saying that I am by no means a cryptocurrency expert or any kind of investment advisor. I will try to keep this short and sweet with some actionable steps I used to get started with investing in crypto. The information shared are my thoughts and based on my personal experience on the topic. I’m only sharing these because I feel that if you’re not on board with crypto at this point i.e if it’s not part of your investment portfolio, you’re seriously missing out on an opportunity to build wealth.

What is Cryptocurrency?

According to nerdwallet, cryptocurrency (or “crypto”) is a digital currency that can be used to buy goods and services, but uses an online ledger with strong cryptography to secure online transactions. They work using a technology called blockchain, which is a decentralized technology spread across many computers that manages and records transactions. Part of the appeal of this technology is its security. The most popular cryptocurrency at the moment is, you guessed it, Bitcoin.

I will admit that several years ago when cryptocurrency was being introduced I was, like many, quite skeptical. It sounded highly volatile, very risky (aka scammy) and sometimes the returns sounded too good to be true. Fast forward several years later after spending quite a bit of time educating myself on the topic and speaking in depth with my financial advisor, crypto educators and other professionals, my only regret is that I didn’t invest in them a lot sooner.

Bitcoin is the world’s first digital asset, is slated to be the currency of the future and as as such, supporters are racing to buy them now in hopes that it will be more valuable later. Just like the internet changed the world many years ago, Bitcoin is expected to usher in a similar change.

My first real introduction to Bitcoin was at the beginning of the pandemic when there was a lot of time to devote to learning something new (the good old days). My husband and I dabbled in a bit of investing and trading during those times with some really good returns. During that time Bitcoin was under $10K. Today (at the time this post is being written) bitcoin sits at around $65K and is predicted to get to upwards of $80K by end of November and north of $100K by December.

There has been a lot of developments lately in the crypto space - major banks around the world and some politicians have sent out pro-bitcoin sentiments. The SEC has approved a Bitcoin ETF, New York’s mayor will be receiving his first 3 paychecks in bitcoin, so are athletes like Aaron Rogers and podcaster Joe Rogan, and El Salvador has made Bitcoin its currency (with more countries to follow suit). It sounds like Bitcoin is here to stay. In my opinion, it would be unwise to not invest, if even a small portion, in cryptocurrency.

How To Invest in Crypto

At the time of writing this, Bitcoin sits at about $65K. If you have that kind of cash to spare you can go ahead and purchase an entire bitcoin. However, you do not need to. You can purchase fractions of bitcoin, whatever dollar amount you can afford. One of the most popular platforms (and what I use) to purchase bitcoin (and other crypto) is Coinbase. However, there are other places where you can purchase bitcoin such as Paypal, Cash app, Venmo and if you use Robinhood for investing you can purchase there too. If you’re a Paypal user, grab my referral link to buy your first $5 of crypto and we can both get $10 (use it to buy even more crypto).

What is Coinbase?

Coinbase is a secure cryptocurrency trading and investing platform that offers users the ability to buy, sell, and exchange over 100 tradable cryptocurrencies such as Bitcoin, Ethereum, and more. It is very user friendly and an account is easy to set up. By using my referral link you will receive your first $10 in Bitcoin after buying or selling $100 of any cryptocurrency you want.

If I were you, I would start investing ASAP as Bitcoin is predicted to get to upwards of $80K by end of November 2021 and north of $100K by December 2021.

*This prediction has changed as the markets changed due to the new COVID-19 strain, Omicron*

If you are very risk averse or still think putting your money in crypto is scary you can earn crypto in other ways. I no longer use my regular debit card for purchases. I now use the Fold debit card where I earn satoshis (a small portion of bitcoin) with my everyday purchases.

What is Fold?

Fold is a bitcoin app and debit card that gives you free bitcoin for qualifying purchases.

Fold lets you earn free bitcoin while you shop. It works just like a regular debit card from any major bank where you would earn rewards (like cash back) on purchases but instead earn free crypto. The average purchase provides 25% cash back in bitcoin. Downloading the app and signing up for a Fold debit card is really easy and there’s benefit in getting both. The app is available in the App Store and if you use my referral link to sign up you can earn 5000 satoshis or sats for short. Satoshis, what’s that? The name is a moniker for bitcoin’s founder Satoshi Nakamoto and is a fraction of bitcoin. In the app, you will also have the opportunity to win additional bitcoin daily with the spinwheel. They have a range of prizes with the ultimate being an entire bitcoin. Read more about that here. There are two different types of debit cards, the Spin or the Spin+. The spin has no annual fee but has a $21 activation fee, while the spin+ has an annual fee of $150 but no activation. With the latter, you are able to earn more rewards and up to 100% cash back. Personally, I have the spin card - I get the benefit of getting fractions of bitcoin (which over time will add up to a large sum) with all my purchases without paying an annual fee. Plus, I am already investing in Bitcoin elsewhere so I don’t feel the need to try to get 100% cash back. After you’ve accumulated at least 50,000 satoshis you can transfer your crypto to a wallet, such as the coinbase wallet (there are others but this is what I use). Ultimately, if you’re looking for a relatively easy way to join the world of cryptocurrencies without investing your own money this is a great option.

There you have it! I have touched on my experience with investing in crypto and hopefully it gives a little insight on making it a part of your investing portfolio. It is very easy to get started, but as with any investment vehicle, do your due diligence, speak with your financial advisor, take caution and be aware that any form of investing is risky.

Next Investing topic will be on NFTs. Be on the look out for that.

2021 Ultimate Gift Guide

The holidays are upon us, which means it’s gifting season! I love getting gifts for my loved ones, whether for friends, family, co-workers, staff/team at the office. There’s something special about gift giving around the holidays that give me the warm and fuzzies. Maybe, it’s the feeling of thanksgiving for me. An ode to getting through yet another year together. Or, maybe it’s the spirit of the season that makes you feel generous and giving. Either way, I love giving them as much as I enjoy receiving them and as such have compiled a list of great gifts that you can share with your loved ones. Some of these I have, will be gifting or are on my wish list. If I had more time I would have totally broke these down into several categories, but consider this my Ultimate Gift Guide.

1. Lily & Bean Hettie Mini Bag - Great gift for your bff, mom, wife or girlfriend. I love that you can personalize it with your initials and, if you glance really quickly it sort of resembles an Hermes mini Kelly Sellier. By all means, get her the mini Kelly if you can but if a $13K gift is not quite in your budget right now, this certainly gets my vote.

2. Thumbprint Brandy Snifters - For a couple, dad, husband, boyfriend or male co-worker these set of 2 brandy glasses make an amazing gift and they are Tiffany, darling! So classy.

3. Double Heart Tag Pendant - So dainty and elegant, this necklace makes a really special gift for your sister, daughter, niece, mom or even your staff/ team. I gifted Tiffany necklaces to my team one year and they absolutely loved them.

4. Candles - Such a no-brainer and always a simple yet thoughtful gift. Everyone loves candles, why not treat your loved one with the gift of fragrance to set the mood this holiday season.

5. Mama pendant necklace - for the moms in your life, or for yourself. This one is very cute, I might even get it for myself.

6. Edge Wine Glasses - I love a good wine glass set and these are so unique and fun. Switch it up a bit from the traditional glass and gift these to your friend or relative that’s always hosting. Choose from a variety of shapes and sizes.

7. Duffel/Weekender Keep All - Really nice and generous gift for hubby, dad or boyfriend. Great to take on weekend trips or to use as a hospital bag. My husband loves his and uses it for short weekend getaways.

8. Plush Microfriber Robe - Robes are always a great idea. They are super cozy and make really nice gifts for grandpa, dad, uncle, husband or brother. They’ll be wearing it all year round.

9. Electric Toothbrush kit - You knew it was coming, no gift guide is complete without oral care goodies. Gifting great oral hygiene habits is always a great idea.

10. Ionic Facial Steamer - Because, self care. Add this to your skin care routine or gift it to a beauty lover and thank me later.

11. Paris Baccarat Rouge 540 - Can’t quite think of anything? my go-to will always be perfume (or cologne for men). This is one of my favs right now and it makes a superb gift.

12. 2022 Goal Planner - The gift that keeps on giving all 2022 long! Can be gifted to anyone on your list that is goal oriented and loves writing all their dreams and aspirations down.

13. Wood and Marble Cheeseboard - For the hostess with the mostest! A great gift for mom, sister, aunt, your neighbor, girlfriend or anyone who loves to host.

14. Cigar and Whiskey Gift Set - Nice gift for dad, hubby or an uncle who is a cigar and brown type of guy. It can even be personalized. Such a classy gift for him.

15. 6 Piece Personalized Packing Cubes - A very useful gift for a mom, sister, aunt or girlfriend who is frequently on the go and loves a bit of organization. I personally love my packing cubes! What was I doing before them?

16. Designer Sunglasses - Gift me a pair of sunnies any day. They make such a great gift for your bff, sister, mom, aunt or cousin. Get her chic, fun, classy designer eyewear and she’ll love you forever.

17. Leather Money Clip Wallet - This reasonably priced wallet can be gifted to any male in your life whether its grandpa, dad, brother, husband or co-worker. They will love it.

18. Classic Trio Makeup Brush Set - I can only think of one person in my life that would love and appreciate these exquisite makeup brushes: my sister. Gift this luxe set to the beauty-lover in your life.

There you have it, 18 amazing gift ideas this season. I hope you see something you love for yourself or will gift to someone. Happy holidays! and happy shopping friends. Shop early this year, try to beat the holiday rush and avoid shipping delays.

Scents For Productivity & Focus

Have you ever walked past a certain aroma and instantly experienced a flashback to your childhood? This happens because smells that enter your body have a direct link to your memory center. Better yet, have you experienced where certain scents have a calming effect? Some scents can even help you focus and in turn increases productivity. There are scores of studies that show scents affect things like memory, concentration, sustained attention and cognitive function to improve productivity.

When you hear, touch or taste something, that information passes through the thalamus, the part of the brain that relays sensory information, before reaching its correlated part of the brain. As such, you’re aware of the sense before you’re aware of the memory or emotion it corresponds to.

Smells, however, bypass the thalamus and head straight to the olfactory bulb, which is directly connected to the hippocampus (which is responsible for your memory) and the amygdala (where you process your emotions). Because odors are first routed through these regions before reaching the thalamus, they’re more closely linked to memory. This explains why aromatherapy can have a profound effect on our emotional, physical and mental state.

HERE ARE 5 SCENTS THAT IMPROVE FOCUS AND PRODUCTIVITY:

1. Lemon - The tangy scent of lemon arouses the senses and improves cognitive function. Use lemon to help you power through that long proposal!

2. Lavender - Sweet-smelling lavender improves concentration by recharging the brain during rest time. This allows you to return to work more revived than you would be otherwise.

3. Jasmine - The smell of jasmine has stimulatory effect on the nervous system. It’s used to re-energize and promote a sense of well-being and a positive mood. Sniff it during a break for an instant refresher.

4. Citrus - Bright, light citrus aromas are helpful for staying awake and alert. Take a whiff before an important afternoon meeting to power up.

5. Peppermint - Peppermint improves attention and concentration. It also enhances the accuracy of memory and increases alertness.

So, while we purchase fragrances and candles because they just smell good. Next time when you’re shopping for scents take into consideration the effect it has on focus, attention, mood and productivity.

Browse the UnOrthoDoc Candle Co. Collection below for some of these scents.

The Mommy Truck: My Top 5 Picks

Planning for the arrival of a new baby is one of the most exciting times of our lives!

I won’t lie, although exciting it was also nerve wracking and daunting, seeing as though we would be first time parents. There were so many things to think about, from designing a nursery to ensuring we had all the necessary items, that often we overlook some of the basic things like transportation. A newborn means an extra person, and this extra person (although very tiny) has an exorbitant amount of STUFF.

I was absolutely not in the market for a new car. I loved my small SUV - a Porsche Macan. It was perfect for me and seemed to fit a carseat pretty comfortably. However, shortly after the birth of my son I quickly realized that I did not have quite enough space for all the things that I now needed. Who knew a stroller (and all its parts), a car seat, baby luggage and my mom (or nanny if you have one) would take up so much space?

After too many times of having to pack, un-pack and re-pack the car so that everything could fit, I finally decided to purchase a bigger vehicle - my mommy truck.

The first thing to consider about your vehicle when you have a new baby on the way is the size. A baby car seat is not just a comfy chair for your tot but also a legal requirement. It helps to note also that you will be maneuvering the car seat in and out of the car quite often so you will need ample room for that.

My Top 5 Picks

My husband and I spent some time doing our research on different vehicles. My portion of the research involved talking with other moms to see the pros and cons of their vehicles then looking at the style and size of the ones that I liked. Hubby on the other hand, took a lot more into consideration.

After some time of visiting dealerships and test driving a few options. I decided on my top 5 (in no particular order):

1. Porsche Cayenne

2. Range Rover Sport

3. Mercedes GLS

4. Tesla Model X

5. Genesis GV80

Having a reliable car is paramount when you have a young family. What you are looking for is a vehicle that has excellent service history. Also, children, and especially young kids, come with a lot of accoutrements. In the early years, there will be the aforementioned baby carseat but as they age, you will need to fit booster seats. So, you need a vehicle that is adaptable to your children’s needs. It is also worth bearing in mind the fact that your kids will have friends, so you may need even more space to fit them in so that you can take them to their activities. 

Ultimately, I decided on the Porsche Cayenne. I love Porsche! My previous truck was a Porsche and I was very sad to have to part ways with it because of it’s size. What I simply did was upgrade to the larger truck. The Cayenne is fun and exhilarating to drive, yet can be used as a practical SUV every day. It's a solid SUV that has great performance and a good degree of practicality. Right from the start, the Cayenne came loaded with technology designed to produce a luxurious ride combined with the nimble and responsive nature of a sports car. We love that the Cayenne is an excellent blend of off-road capable, family carrier and twisty corner master.

BONUS: There’s one other vehicle that quite a bit of parents raved about so I figured I’d give it an honorable mention. It’s the Honda Odyssey, a minivan so practical that it is all the rave among the more seasoned parents. I am told “It will change your life!” I am not a fan of the minivan, at least not yet. I am willing to forego this for the foreseeable and continue to make the most of the one I’ve chosen.

As we have learned, there are many things to consider regarding your car when you have a baby on the way. Having a reliable vehicle is crucial as you cannot afford any mishaps with a youngster on board and you need to ensure that it is of a suitable size for them to grow into, and also for the possibility of another child on the way. Make sure it is adaptable to all their needs. It helps too that is super cool and fun!

Lastly, here’s a financial tip: It’s a write off. If you own a business and use your vehicle for that purpose more than 50% of the time, you can write off 100% of the purchase price and any expenses associated with it on your taxes. Note that any vehicle used for business purposes should be at least 6000 pounds to qualify for a write off. Speak to your trusted CPA about this option if you’re considering going this route.

What are your top picks? Drop them in the comments below, I would love to know.

Financial Planning Checklist for Dental & Medical Professionals

I can’t believe I’m saying this but, a new year is fast approaching! I don’t know about you but this time of year usually means getting my financial ducks in a row (it’s always a great time to do this). As 2022 approaches, let’s start to think about ways we can improve and be better for our future selves. One way to do this is to re-assess to finances. Here’s a quick checklist to follow:

Create and Stick to a Budget

Develop good financial habits early by setting a budget. There are several guidelines out there as to how an ideal budget should be set up. I personally follow the 50-30-20 rule (with some variation). Essentially this means, 50 percent of your money each month should go to essentials like bills and housing, 20 percent should go towards your financial goals like savings, investments, saving for retirement and paying off debt/student loans, and 30 percent should go towards wants like vacation, entertainment, etc. If you want to, you can switch the 30-20 around if that makes more sense for you. Of course, your budget sometimes need a little wiggle room but for the most part try to stick to this plan. Automate it so that you don't have to think about it.

Build an Emergency Fund

Make sure you have at least three (3) to twelve (12) months of funds saved up for a rainy day.  Personally, I think 12 months is a good buffer. This is where part of the 20 percent savings portion of your budget should go, and it's there in case you lose your job, become ill, or encounter an unexpected expense. Keep this money in a separate savings account at a separate bank from your checking account and forego a debit card for that account. Also, automate your contributions.  Ask your employer to direct debit a portion of your salary into your emergency fund account or you can do this yourself. You can also consider placing the funds into an account with high yield interest. Another smart thing to do is put this money in a short term investment vehicle where you can access it immediately if needed.

Create a Plan For Student Loan Repayment

The pandemic gave us a nice break from the pressures of repaying student loans every month. Hopefully we were smart about taking advantage of the 0% interest period as the end of that is fast approaching (after Jan. 31, 2022). Explore all the options for student loan repayment that is available to you and choose the best one for your situation. Look into options like public service loan forgiveness (PLSF), the different repayment options available through the federal government and/or take advantage of the benefits of student loan refinancing or consolidation. If you are still not clear about the best option for you, seek a professional help. I have personally used Travis Hornsby, The Student Loan planner and he was able to help me figure out a repayment option that fits my goals all while saving me money in the long run.

Pay Down Debt and Build Good Credit

All debt are not created equal. There is what we call good debt and there's bad debt.  Things like credit card debt are considered bad debt because it grows pretty quickly and doesn't help you in the long term. Interest rates are usually higher and can take much longer to pay off. On the contrary, student loans are considered good debt because it's an investment into your future earning power. Put as much money as you can towards credit card bills first starting with the with the one with the highest interest. Once that's paid off, prioritize the next highest interest debt, and so forth. Also consider automating the contribution to your debt payment so that you never have to worry about a missed or late payment.

Protect Your Paycheck

An injury or illness could limit your ability to practice. Ensure you have enough disability insurance coverage to cover you in case of sickness or injury. Supplemental insurance options are available specifically for health/medical professionals, but be sure you understand how the policy defines total and partial disability. Finally, remember to update this coverage as you grow in your career and into your practice.

Put Additional Protections In Place

As your career grows, explore the various life circumstances and get the right insurance to protect against potential impacts to your budget:

• Malpractice Insurance

• Life Insurance

• Renters/homeowners Insurance

• Auto insurance

• Umbrella Insurance

Save and Invest For Retirement

It is really important that you get on this early! It is vital that you prioritize creating and contributing to a retirement fund and take advantage of compounding interest. Compounding interest will do a lot of the hard work for you if you start early. Try to maximize your contributions and take advantage of any match system your job has to offer. If your job does not offer retirement options, you can do this on your own. Speak with your financial advisor and your accountant about the tax benefits.

Explore Attorney Assistance

Utilize attorney expertise to review employment contracts, help protect your assets from malpractice, maximize tax planning and discuss estate planning.

Start a College Savings Plan

You certainly know the value of a good education - and the cost of getting one. If you have a child or children and their education is a priority, start saving now. A 529 plan is a great place to start.

Talk To a Professional

Financial planning can feel overwhelming, but it doesn’t have to be. A financial representative can help you design a plan and implement strategies to meet your specific goals with confidence.

Getting your finances together means stability, security and dear I say it, freedom. It’s okay if you don’t have all this together just yet. The important thing is that you start, now. I will have the 2022 planner, budget and financial tracker ready in a few days so be on the look out for that. Let’s make 2022 the year we get our lives together. Our future selves will thank us for it.

Tips on Financing Your Dental Visits

As a dental professional, I know first hand that dental care can be pricey! However, the neglect from not having dental care could cost you a whole lot more in the long run. My patients often times tell me the reason(s) they haven’t had dental care is because they couldn’t afford it or because they do not have dental insurance. Because this is an everyday conversation in my practice, I figured I would take this conversation here as well.

Options for covering dental expenses:

Dental Insurance

Most medical plans do not include dental and thus dental insurance is sold separately. One important thing to note is that there is a difference between a dental office that takes your insurance vs a dental office that you are in-network with. A dentist may take your insurance even though you are out of network with them. Generally, using an out-of-network dentist means your insurance would cover less and you’d pay more. Being in-network, on the other hand, usually means that your insurance company has pre-negotiated the fees with the dentist and they generally don’t charge more than that.

Payment Plans Offered By Dental Office (In House Financing)

Some dental practices offer in house financing. This occurs when a patient sets up a payment plan with the practice when there’s no insurance or rather than applying for financing. For some, paying a bill on a weekly or monthly basis can be much more manageable than paying it in a lump sum. In these situations, the practice holds the risk for future nonpayment and typically doesn’t charge interest. It is also common for dental practices that use this type of program to offer a cash discount on larger procedures with full payment up front or if the patient agrees to a set schedule of equal payments over a set period of time.

Using a Health Savings Account

A Health Savings Account  (HSA) is another potential financing option for your dental work. An HSA gives you the ability to put pre-tax money in each month that you can then use for medical expenses (which may include dental care). This can help lower your overall health care costs because it is pre-taxed money. Since most dental care is an eligible expense, many people decide to use the money in their HSA to help pay for any co-pays or dental procedures they may need.

Dental financing

If you don’t have insurance or can’t afford to pay for necessary dental care all at once, you might consider financing. This could mean borrowing money to pay for your treatment and then making monthly payments until it’s paid off. Financing also typically involves paying fees and interest on the money you borrow.

Here are some options if you need financing for necessary dental work:

• Personal loan - A personal loan can be used to pay for a range of personal expenses, which can include dental work and medical treatment. These loans are typically unsecured loans, which mean the lender doesn’t require any collateral to secure the loan. Because of this, the lender will typically consider many factors, including your credit history, to determine whether you’ll be able to repay the loan.

• Medical credit cards - Medical credit cards may be available to pay for healthcare treatments, including dental procedures. A medical credit card is very similar to a regular credit card, but you can only use a medical credit card to pay for healthcare — and only within a specific network of providers that accept the card. If you’re approved for a medical credit card, you can use it to pay a qualified provider for your medical or dental care. After that, you’ll owe the credit card issuer and make payments to them. Some medical credit cards may come with a period of deferred interest. If you’re able to pay off the balance within the deferred time period, you can avoid paying interest.

• Intro 0% APR credit card - Rather than using a medical credit card, you may consider paying for your healthcare with a regular credit card. There are credit cards that offer an introductory 0% APR for purchases and balance transfers for a set period of time. After the introductory period ends, the card will have an APR based on your credit and other factors. If you’re able to pay off the amount you owe within the established time frame, which is usually somewhere between 12 and 21 months, you could finance your dental care interest-free.

  As with a personal loan and a medical credit card, a regular credit card issuer will typically check your credit profile when considering you for a card.

• Third Party Financing - Traditional third-party financing is what happens when patients elect to use their existing credit cards to pay for their treatment. While this is not typically thought of as a dental care financing option, it’s commonly used. The dental practice is paid in full within 24–48 hours after processing the credit card. The financing is provided to the consumer (patient) by the credit card’s issuing bank, and the issuing bank assumes the risk for nonpayment. Some popular third-party financing options are CareCredit, Lending Point and iCredit-Works.

Access to affordable dental treatment is an important issue. There are many options for covering dental expenses including dental insurance, in-house financing, Health Savings Accounts, and various loans through third-party lenders. Whichever method you choose, it’s important to do what’s best for your unique needs.

How I Stay Organized and How You Can Too

I consider myself a pretty organized person that typically have things in order. It goes without saying that with being a dental professional there’s a certain level of organizational skill that comes with the territory in order to keep things streamlined and on schedule while at work. But, there are other areas that take a considerable amount of organizing as well.

Here’s a tiny glimpse into my world:

• I have 3 Instagram business accounts which I manage solo - my practice, my candle company and my personal brand. I create content for each page which includes photo shoots, product photography, creating graphics in Canva, creating videos and reels, sometimes planning IG live events and scheduling said content.

• The candle company itself which I also manage solo - some tasks include product photography, maintaining and updating website, research, inventory, tracking and ordering supplies, creating new scent formulas monthly for candle club members, actually making the candles, packaging and shipping, marketing products online including email marketing.

• I write weekly blog posts here and market them on a few social platforms namely Instagram, Pinterest and sometimes Facebook and linkedIn. I vet and write sponsored posts for brands which often times include not only a blog post but also inclusion in my monthly newsletter, instagram posts and stories.

  With opening a dental practice and having a baby things got a lot busier and it has become quite a task to keep all things organized. I wear many, many hats and if I am not careful things can get messy.

Here are ways I stay organized, perhaps this will help you too:

At Work

1. Morning Huddle - I arrive to the office at least 15 minutes before I start seeing patients. My team and I do a short 5-10 minute huddle. In my opinion, this is probably the single most effective meeting that you can have with your team. It’s a time of collaboration where the whole team can come together to review the day's schedule and discuss vital patient information. I find that this increases productivity and overall efficiency in my practice.

2. Time Blocking - I often times get emails and phone call from patients, colleagues and referring doctors with questions and concerns. If I were to stop every few minutes to respond to all these I wouldn’t be ale to effectively treat my patients that have appointments during those times. instead, I schedule 30-45 minute time block where I respond to all those calls and emails.

3. Admin Time/Day - There are many tasks and administrative duties to be done when you are a practice owner. So much so that it is nearly impossible to get it all done during the day when you’re seeing patients. therefore, I have designated one day out of the week to get all my administrative duties done.

At Home

1. Make Your Bed - Believe it or not, making the bed each day not only makes your room look clean and tidy but has other has positive impacts. In Charles Duhigg's book “The Power of Habit,” he noted that making your bed establishes a direct link to better productivity and overall health. When your make your bed, it helps you be more productive throughout the day and invest your time in other healthier habits.

2. Declutter - Your home is your scared space. Not only must you declutter to prevent prevent pests and reduce dust, mold, and mildew but studies have shown where clutter has adverse effects on your mental health. Decluttering decreases stress and anxiety levels which essentially leads to you being more relaxed. My favorite place to declutter is my closet. I organize all my clothing and shoes by color - it instantly makes me happier!

3. Lists and Calendars - Don’t you just hate it when you’re ready to have a bowl of cereal and you reach for the cereal box or the milk and there’s none? or when you get home from work hungry and realize you don’t have anything to make for dinner? Me too. I started making a running list of items I run out out of as soon as it happens that way I always know when I need a certain thing, this is posted on my refrigerator so it’s easily seen. Another thing that’s visible is our calendar - nothing like scheduling brunch with your friends on Saturday morning only to realize that your baby has a Pediatrician’s appointment.

Life/General

1. Planner, Calender and Scheduling Apps - I cannot live without these! I always have a physical planner where I write things down (meetings, important dates, etc) because as much as we are in the digital age there is still something about writing things down that helps me to actually get it done.

• I use this planner - I designed and created it myself and keep one in my desk drawer at work and one in my home office. I update this planner every year and make it available for my readers as well. Go here to grab yours. I also use the passion planner which I carry around in my purse.

• iCal app - This is an app on my iPhone. Everything in my physical planner is duplicated on the app as a back up.

• Planoly app - I use this app pretty much to plan all my social media content. I upload the photos, put in the captions and hashtags and schedule a day and time for each to go out. This is called '“batching” and it makes a world of difference in helping to stay consistent wit posting on social media.

2. Make use of the word “no” - It’s important that you are careful to not take on too much. Time is a limited resource, saying yes to everything threatens this very limited resource and can often also lead to burn out. Protect your limited resources by first pausing to assess whether or not the ask is something that you really need or want to take on right now, if at all. If you are like I once was and struggle to say no, try saying things like, “Thanks for asking, let me check my schedule/calendar and get back to you.”

3. Don’t Procrastinate - The longer you wait to do something, the more difficult it will be to get it done. If you want your life to be less stressful and less demanding, then organize as soon as you can. Putting in the effort to get things done as soon as possible will lift the weight off of you from doing it later. I do this all he time with check-lists. I write it down, get it done and check it off my list. The feeling accomplishment after you’ve checked everything off your to-do list is unmatched.

BONUS: Delegate responsibilities! A really organized life is not overfilled with responsibilities, meetings and deadlines. In fact, it has less because things that create stress have been slowly organized out. Slowly but surely I am getting to a place where I delegate more. At work, my office manager helps with a lot of the administrative duties so instead of these taking an entire day, I have been able to cut down my admin time to half day. perhaps in the (near) future I will hire a VA (virtual assistant) to help with for all things social media and marketing. When it comes to the candle company, as it gets busier I will hire help or possibly outsource all-together. We shall see. How do you stay organized? Tell me in the comments. Someone, somewhere may benefit from it.

10 Ways Leaders Can Avoid Getting Burned Out

This is a guest post by Bash Sarmiento

According to Indeed (2020), based on their survey done before the COVID-19 outbreak, cases of employee burnout increased by 9%. Specifically, 52% of all employees manifest the telltale signs of burnout. Employee burnout is characterized as a state of physical, mental, and emotional exhaustion. As such, it puts employee motivation and productivity at a dimming light and their accomplishments, personal identity, and performance at risk.

In FlexJobs (2020), seventy-five percent of employees have experienced burnout. Among them, 40% felt that the pandemic aggravated their burnout. In addition, Indeed (2021) found that 67% of employees believe that the prevailing health crisis worsened their cases of burnout. From these figures, we cannot turn a blind eye to the fact that such a seemingly mild issue can pose a grave threat to employees’ mental health and it is at an alarming rate.

Employees of all ages and types can experience this particular type of work-related stress. Like any regular worker, leaders and managers also suffer frequent or constant burnout (Gallup, 2020). They, too, can suffer the impact of workplace stress, which then may contribute to a mortality count of 120,000 deaths and health costs of nearly $190 billion in spending each year if specific measures to mitigate the risks are not reinforced (HBR.Org (2019).

Therefore, as a leader. You must help yourself rise amidst the challenges because it is not only you who depend on yourself. Your subordinates also root for you. Here are a few ways you can lean on before the going gets tough:

1. A llow for check-ins during your meetings.

Also called a vibe check, check-ins are a perfect way to know if anyone in your team, including yourself, is going through something. This promotes open discourse and allows everyone to open themselves. Not only will this detect early signs of burnout, but it will also forge a work culture that supports each other. You will be surprised how others would collaboratively suggest ways to overcome any personal or work-related issues. Opening up and having ears that listen can feel like a warm hug.

2. Educate everyone about mental health.

Better yet, enlighten your team on the early warning signs of employee burnout as well as depression and other predominant mental health issues. For a virtual event, tap a knowledgeable person-of-authority to be a resource speaker. 

3. Make use of employee engagement surveys.

With you as one of the participants, your team members can dish out surveys to measure commitment, motivation, sense of purpose, and passion for work. This can also act as a need analysis survey to have a baseline as to where you should start with your strategies to mitigate the burnout cases.

4. Eliminate red tapes.

Perhaps you also need to work on untangling or cutting the long process of some procedures in the workplace. Work on simplifying operations, especially those that may be the root of delay or inaction. It is the way to achieve a better and more efficient workflow.

5. Create realistic goals and objectives.

Setting unrealistic targets present pain more than a challenge. And as a leader who is supposed to take control in hitting these, it will be a force of habit to keep trying. Burnout starts from overcrowding your plate and not fully realizing what is ahead. Remember that your subordinates may not work at the same pace as you. You cannot always go beyond as others might contribute to your failure rather than in the success.

6. Encourage work-life balance.

Discuss with your team about having flexible work arrangements to promote work-life balance. You can also take advantage of this policy in as much as your subordinates. This way, everyone can work on a comfortable schedule, giving them motivation and a productivity boost.

7. Avail a PTO.

Taking a break from work is one of the best things to do, especially when you feel any stress or simply need a moment to relax. Your paid time-offs are your lifesaver in times of a mental health emergency. Use them to your advantage wisely.

8. Revisit your employee wellness programs.

Meditation sessions, cooking classes for eating healthy, desktop yoga, and virtual workouts have been lauded as the most sought-after programs HRs initiate to promote employee wellbeing and reduce stress in the workplace. If these have not been introduced to your company, set the bar for the benefit of everyone.

9. Practice empathetic leadership.

So others are empathetic to you as well. A compassionate leader has a selfless concern for the lives of their team members. This kind of leader has a genuine interest in knowing the challenges they face and their overall feelings. To offer support, encouragement, and help, the empathetic leader understands whatever situation their team member is going through and contributes to making the situation bearable, if not better. These leaders often get the helper’s high, a rush of positive emotions following an act of kindness or service to others.

10. Recognize your work and those of others.

In this day and age, recognitions are crucial to productivity, happiness, and motivation in the organization. It does not hurt to be generous with praise and merits, especially when you see that everyone is trying their best to get by and cope despite the many uncertainties in our lives today. Recognizing their work should feel good for you since you are also part of their success. Not only will this bring you butterflies in your stomach and prevent stress, but it will also put your character as a leader in good light.

You may have noticed that this list was written as if directed to a regular employee. We did that on purpose. You are free to deal with stress and burnout just like the rest of the entire workforce. Your feelings are valid, and your emotions are essential. The organization knows you are not a robot, but only you can act to make a big difference in your life.

Meet Bash Sarmiento

Bash Sarmiento is a writer and an educator from Manila. He writes laconic pieces in the education, lifestyle and health realms. His academic background and extensive experience in teaching, textbook evaluation, business management and traveling are translated in his works.

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6 Expenses To Consider When Opening a Business

Are you thinking of starting up a new business? Fantastic!

Whether it’s a dental practice, finally turning your hobby into a side business or another type of business, there are some expenses that we don’t necessarily think about. In all our excitement to launch, start marketing, hire staff, secure financing, and set up our websites, it’s easy to miss or misjudge a few important startup costs. Yet, neglecting these often-overlooked expenses could result in a cash crunch before our business even gets off the ground.

Here are six sneaky small business startup costs:

1. Business Insurance

While you hope nothing goes wrong when you’re launching a new business venture, the reality is sometimes it does. Not having business insurance in place could leave you struggling to pay for expenses you didn’t budget for while trying to finance a new business.

Every small business is different, so do your research and choose the insurance coverages best suited for your situation. Here are a few:

• Business property insurance- this helps to protect your workplace location and property like tools and equipment, while 

• General liability insurance - this helps protect your new business from claims for bodily injury, property damage, and other personal claims.

• Business income insurance - this helps protect income lost when you can’t operate due to covered losses such as theft or fire.

• Life insurance and disability insurance - this is a no-brainer, it protects your family against income loss.

2. Fees and Licenses

Among other often-overlooked startup costs are the fees associated with establishing a business. You may have to pay to search and register your business name and even have it trademarked. Depending on your business location and the nature of the business, you may need federal, state, and/or municipal licenses and permits. If you’re a dental professional you will need to pay for the renewal of your license to practice dentistry, your licenses to prescribe controlled substances and professional dues almost on a yearly basis. The costs and requirements will vary.

3. Professional Expertise

Don’t underestimate legal fees and accounting fees when estimating the costs to start a new business. Paying for good advice regarding your business structure, legal agreements, and financial issues early on in your business can help you minimize or avoid costly future legal or tax entanglements. Get a few quotes so you’ll have a realistic idea of the costs you’ll incur.

4. Taxes

There’s no getting away from paying taxes. Find out what municipal, state, and federal taxes your startup must pay and when. State and municipal taxes vary, so visit the U.S. Small Business Administration website or ask your trusted CPA or tax lawyer about the details pertinent to your location. At the very minimum, expect to pay state income tax and state employment taxes if you have staff, plus your federal business taxes, depending on your corporate/business structure.

5. Payroll/Bookkeeping/accounting Fees

Whether you have an automated online system, a bookkeeper who visits your office, a virtual assistant, or a trusted CPA don’t forget to account for this important monthly cost. While a bookkeeper may charge a small fee per hour, a monthly flat-fee arrangement may be better, or you may opt for a subscription to an automated online payroll and bookkeeping program, such as Quickbooks or Gusto.

6. Utility Bills

While you probably studied the commercial rents or property values in your area pretty carefully when budgeting for your startup costs, an area often overlooked are monthly utility expenses. Your startup operating expenses include more than just your office rent, lease payment, or mortgage. Depending on your business and location, your startup utility bills could also include:

• Electricity

• Heat and/or air conditioning

• Telephone

• Internet

• Water

• Condo fees

Talk to other business owners in the area to get an idea of the typical costs based on the square footage you’re considering.

Starting a new business is always a risk, but you can minimize your risk of failure and maximize your potential for success by realistically budgeting for all types of startup costs. This way you’ll be better prepared financially to handle the unexpected expenses that are bound to pop up.

How My Blog Made $12,201.67 in 8 Months

I speak quite frequently here on the topic of Side Hustles. This is probably one of the reasons you were lead to my blog in the first place. When I talk about different ways you can generate additional income, I almost always mention blogging. So, in the spirit of transparency I am sharing my year-to-date blogging income (that is, January-August, 2021).

I must preface by saying that when I started this blog my intention was never to make money from it. The goal has always been to educate and inspire young professionals to lead a balanced, purpose filled “UnOrthoDoc” lifestyle while on the path to personal, professional and financial development. As it turns out, while trying to do just and providing my audience with services and products that will help make life easier/better a positive side effect was that I indirectly pulled in some cash.

From January-August 2021, my blog has generated a total of $12,201.67

Here is the breakdown:

1. Sponsored posts $3,700.00 - a sponsored post is an article you write on behalf of a company that would like to get in front of your audience. The key for me where this is concerned is to only agree to write such articles when it is a product or service that I have personally used or can get behind. One such article has been this one for the company molekule. I personally use the molekule air purifier in my practice, love it and can get behind it.

2. Affiliate links $3,399.38 - On the resources page of this blog I have products and services listed that I have used myself and even carry in my practice. I like giving my patients options especially when it come to oral care products and I extend the same to my readers. When I promote a company’s products as an affiliate I earn a small commission for the referral.

3. Products $5,102.29 - A large percentage of this number comes from sales from my candle company. I love scented candles and started making them for myself, family and friends back when I was in dental school. Eventually as interest grew I turned it into a business. UnOrthoDoc Candle Company started as a hobby that over time became a side hustle for me. A much smaller percentage of this number comes from the sales of digital products.

I have shared this to show that it is indeed possible to generate money from your blog. Even though I have had to do some work in generating this money, I consider some of this income passive since I don’t actively seek out sponsored posts and I get the benefit of a small commission from products I recommend because my readers get the benefit of purchasing said products at a discounted rate.

Blogging however is not easy and it’s certainly not for everyone. It requires you to work for free for a long time while you build up your audience. I have been writing o this blog since 2017 and was only able to start generating income from it in 2020 (excpet for the candle company).

5 Secrets To Work-Life Balance

These days, especially with some of us working from home it seems almost impossible to have a little separation between your career and your life. In fact, for many people, their career is their life. But it doesn't have to be that way. Being happy and fulfilled requires making time for yourself just as much of a priority as your career. Here are 5 secrets to a work-life balance:

1. Before You Say Yes, Pause - If you’re reading this there is no doubt that you are ambitious and driven and like to get things done! You also may feel like you can handle anything thrown at you. I am the same. While this all might be true, it’s important that you are careful to not take on too much. Time is a limited resource, saying yes to everything threatens this very limited resource and can often also lead to burn out. Protect your limited resources by first pausing to assess whether or not the ask is something that you really need or want to take on right now, if at all. If you are like I once was and struggle to say no, try saying things like, “Thanks for asking, let me check my schedule/calendar and get back to you.”

2. Manage Your Workload - Sometimes I feel like I have way too many things to do. I am constantly juggling an endless amount of balls and trying to keep them all in the air. Since having my newborn, I have come to the realization that I cannot do it all and still maintain a balance between my work and home life and that I can allow some of those less important balls to drop. Cue the checklist - I now have checklists for everything! I place things in order of priority doing the most important things first. Other items much lower on the list now gets outsourced. If it’s at work, I delegate some tasks to my office manager and at home I have learned to ask my husband for help. What I have found out is that these individuals are happy to help but they have never gotten the opportunity because I never asked.

3. Create Boundaries with Technology - Put the phone down! Digital burnout is a thing that a lot of us are affected by. For me this is social media and emails. I know I am not the only one that sometimes mindlessly scroll through the abyss of Instagram and Tik Tok and respond to emails after hours and on weekends. You must set boundaries where this is concerned. Instagram is a big part of my businesses - I do marketing for my Orthodontics practice and my candle company via the platform and also make partial income from it via sponsored and affiliate posts. I enjoy doing these but it also makes it easy for the line between healthy social media consumption and compulsive social media consumption to blur. What I do to combat that is set social time blocks, that is specific time(s) of the day when I go on Instagram to do a story, make a post or to engage. I also set a time limit via the apps’ time management tool to remind me when it’s time for me to close the app.

4. Take Your Vacation - I’m currently on vacation as I type this, but had it not been for pure exhaustion I probably would have kept going - this is also a reminder to myself. You may feel guilty about taking time off of work, especially when you have a lot going on but it’s so important. If you are like me, when you have a certain goal in mind you cannot stop until that goal is achieved. However, continuously going without a break only leads to burnout.

5. Take Control of Your Life - You are in the driver seat of your life! If you don’t like something, you can just decide that it doesn’t work for you and make the change. I know some things are easier said than done but, begin to work on the things that are easiest to implement. For example, if you need to get more sleep decide that you will go to bed an hour or two earlier. If there are certain things that gives you stress, figure out how to get rid of it (ie. set boundaries) or how to manage it.

There is such a thing as work-life balance and you CAN create a life that you absolutely enjoy! The key is to decide on the type of life you want to lead and take the necessary steps to achieving it. Start with the 5 steps above. I hope this helps.

Read This If You’re Thinking About Starting a Small Business

[This is a guest post from Alyssa Strickland of millennial-parents.com]

So, you have an entrepreneurial spirit and aren’t exactly sure what to do with it. You know that you want to start a business, but what kind will you start? And what exactly does it take to get a company off the ground that succeeds long term?

The UnOrthoDoc has some information to help you start your entrepreneurial journey strong. Here’s an overview of some of the simplest small businesses you can launch as well as some tips for the early stages:

 Explore the Options

These days, there really is no limit to the types of businesses you can start, whether you want to work from home or at a designated location. Evaluate your interests and expertise, and research all the ideas that could bring you fulfillment and success. Here are a few of the easiest small businesses to get off the ground:

●      Virtual assistance

●      Social media management

●      Web development or design

●      Handyman services

●      Landscaping

●      Woodworking

●      Personal training

●      Videography

●      Property management

●      Massage therapy

●      Consultant

Handle the Legal Matters

 Once you’ve determined what type of business you will start, it’s time to begin preparing for the legal side of things. For example, you’ll need to create a unique and catchy business name and register it with the state. And you’ll need to choose a business structure that fits the needs of your company, whether that means an LLC, sole proprietorship, corporation, or partnership.

Use Tech Tools

 There are so many technologies on the market today specifically designed to help small businesses succeed. The earlier you start researching these tools, the better able you’ll be to decide which ones will help you achieve your goals.

 For example, you’ll need an effective payroll system when you start hiring staff. Don’t make the mistake that many other companies make of mismanaging payroll. This can lead to a variety of financial and legal problems.

 Learn the ins and outs of processing payroll, and implement software that simplifies tasks like paying your employees, tracking time, and reporting your taxes. And as you put your payroll system in place, be sure to factor in federal and local labor laws as well as state overtime laws.

 Furthermore, research all the other tools available that can help you successfully launch and grow your company. Many small business owners benefit from using software and apps for project management, collaboration, marketing, and human resources.

Constantly Improve Your Plan

 You will have to take a lot of different steps when starting and managing your business. Embrace the mindset that you can always improve.

 For instance, you’ll need to conduct market research to ensure that your business idea is viable, and you’ll need to continue doing research so that you can make informed decisions as your business grows. Also, prepare to create a thorough business plan before launching your business; this business plan will need to be modified over time as your goals and circumstances change.

 Your business plan not only will help guide you through challenges on your journey but will also help you secure the funding you need to achieve your goals. As such, you should always keep re-strategizing as needed.

Stay Connected

 =Lastly, networking is crucial for any type of business. Look for networking events in your area as well as in different states. Attend virtual industry conferences. Join your local chamber of commerce, and always look for opportunities to meet other business owners and professionals in your community. Building a strong network of support will prove invaluable through the ups and downs of entrepreneurship.

 If you have a passion to be a business owner, take the time to determine what type of company you could thrive in the most. Then, plan and prepare diligently to lay a solid foundation upon which you can build your company. In no time, you could be leading a more fulfilling life while also fostering your career and financial health!

If you found this article helpful, you can read loads of other content on theunorthodoc.com!

My Interview With The Dental Marketer Podcast

I recently sat with Michael Arias, host of The Dental Marketer Podcast where I shared my story of becoming a practice owner and entrepreneur. We also spoke about, you guessed it, marketing!

You can find my episode (327) and the podcast on iTunes, audible. spotify, stitcher or directly on The Dental Marketer’s website.

MICHAEL’S 3 KEY TAKEAWAYS FROM OUR EPISODE:

• WHAT WAS IT LIKE FOR DR. PATRICE ACQUIRING AND OPENING UP IN THE MIDDLE OF A WORLDWIDE PANDEMIC.

• HOW SHE HAD SUCH A SMOOTH TRANSITION WITH ACQUIRING AN EXISTING PRACTICE AND MAKING ALL THE TEAM MEMBERS HAPPY.

• HOW TO STRIKE A GOOD MIDDLE GROUND WITH YOUR EMPLOYEES BETWEEN BEING FRIENDLY BUT BEING FIRM.

About Michael

MY NAME IS MICHAEL ARIAS AND I’M HERE TO HELP PEOPLE FIND YOU.

FOR THE PAST FEW YEARS, I’VE HAD THE AMAZING PRIVILEGE OF HELPING HUNDREDS OF DENTISTS EFFECTIVELY MARKET THEIR PRACTICE. WITH AN OVERLOAD OF MARKETING OPTIONS, IT’S CHALLENGING TO KNOW WHERE TO START AND WHAT TO FOCUS ON. I’M HERE TO CUT THROUGH ALL THE NOISE, AND HELP YOU FIND THE MOST EFFECTIVE MARKETING APPROACHES TO FIT YOUR BUDGET, YOUR PREFERENCES, AND YOUR BRAND!

Balancing Motherhood & Professional Life

Mother - of all my titles, this is the one I am most proud of.

I have been a mom for just under 2 months now and It has been one of the most fulfilling journeys, but it can be exhausting. Keeping a tiny human alive and well is tough! Add work into the mix, and some days I feel as though I am stretched very thin.

As a new mom who owns a business and works full-time, I can definitely say that’s it’s been hard at times to balance them both without feeling overwhelmed or guilty. There are so many things throughout the day that vie for our time and attention, that it’s easy to feel as though we’re not excelling in any of our roles, at home or at work.

The perfect work-life balance sometimes feel unattainable, but I have figured out some strategies (with the help of some other moms) that I have implemented to maintain my sanity and my purpose as a full-time entrepreneur and mom. If you’re a mom, I hope these will help you too:

1. Set a Routine.

This will obviously look different for everyone, but establishing some sort of routine can help to make things run smoothly and to stay organized.

For me, I make sure my alarm is set for a time that allows me to get myself dressed and ready for work in the mornings with ample time to bond with my baby before leaving home. My husband typically gets dressed first. He cleans and sterilizes the baby’s bottles and spends some time with our son, and I typically get a feeding session in. When the work day is complete and we both are home, my husband is the first to get cleaned up and takes the baby. He does the feeding, taking him on walks and spends some quality time while I do the prep for dinner. After we eat then I spend time with baby while my husband gets some rest for the overnight shift.

2. Prioritize Tasks.

I use checklists! Rather than thinking of all the things I need to accomplish in the near future, I focus on action items with the highest urgency, and attend to those first. I make a list of tasks to get done per day and cross them off as I go. This helps me to stay focused, organized and provides satisfaction since I am making progress and reaffirms the fact that I am indeed capable of accomplishing multiple tasks in a day, both at work and at home.

3. Work Efficiently.

When I am at work I do my best to give it my full attention and stick to a schedule. It’s hard to stay away from social media but I schedule social media breaks and set a timer so I don’t go past a certain amount of time and end up aimlessly scrolling. I also build time into my schedule (every 3 hours) to facilitate pumping.

4. Be fully present.

My baby is at the point where he sleeps and wakes every 2-3 hours for feeding then goes right back to sleep. It doesn’t feel like a good work-life balance when I’m at work for eight hours each day then only catch a few glimpses of him before I have to do it all over again.

Because of this, when my baby is awake, I am in full mom-mode; my laptop stays closed and my cell phone is put to the side. I make the most of the time we do have each day by giving him my undivided attention during our precious hours together.

5. Outsource chores.

I am still working on this one but right now, my mom and husband pitch in at home wherever they can and my office manager and clinical staff has taken on more administrative work at the office. Before I had my baby, errands didn’t seem like such a hassle. Nowadays, it often feels impossible to squeeze those tasks into an already demanding schedule.

I have since decided to take advantage of services available, like online shopping for groceries. Instacart, Amazon and Target have become my best friends as these services save us from having to go to the store.

6. Get sufficient sleep.

This is a work in progress. Nighttime sleep can be extremely unpredictable as it completely revolves around baby’s sleep schedule. I am exhausted around the clock due to the frequent wakings and feedings which, to be honest can sometimes decrease productivity.

Because getting enough rest is crucial to performing well at work, I try to take naps whenever the baby is down for a nap himself and alternate between my husband and mom who keeps the baby each night. This ensures that I get enough rest and feel energized throughout the day.

7. Reevaluate other commitments.

Learning to say “no” is important. It’s one of the things I have gotten proficient at time. Time has become even more valuable now. My advice would be to not overload your schedule and lose out on time with baby. Obviously, you don’t need to turn down every work or social opportunity, but you do want to avoid putting so much on your plate that you can’t spend time with your family.

8. Enjoy some time to yourself.

You might want to spend most of your time outside of work with your family. Even so, it’s important to sneak a little me time. What that looks like for me is spending time solo doing something that is relaxing, such as getting my hair done, getting a manicure and pedicure or getting a massage/facial at the spa. These little mini self care procedures work wonders for not only the body but mind as well. Thankfully, my husband encourages me to do this and is happy to have some one-on-one time with our baby during these times.

Working moms face a unique set of struggles. Add being a business owner to the mix and the stress level is amplified. I want to be the best mom to my child, yet my time and energy are divided between my responsibilities at home and those at work.

What I try to remind myself is that I am setting a great example for my child. Not only am I providing financially for my family, but also demonstrating what it looks like to use my professional gifts and passions. From one working mom to another, I hope these tips help you feel confident in this challenging yet fulfilling journey.