The Most Philanthropic Thing You Can Do Is Get Rich
Why building wealth can give you the capacity to do more good.
There is a sentence I came across recently that made me stop and think:
The most philanthropic thing you can do is get rich.
At first, I wasn't sure what to make of it. We tend to think of philanthropy as something that happens after generosity has already been established: you give your time, your money, your resources, or your influence to help someone else. Getting rich, on the other hand, can sound almost antithetical to that idea. It conjures images of accumulation, consumption, and the pursuit of more for the sake of more.
But the more I thought about the statement, the more I understood the argument behind it.
The Danger of Letting Your Career Become Your Identity
One of the thoughts that has been occupying my mind lately is how easily we allow our careers to become our entire identity. It's something I've observed not only in healthcare but across so many professions. We introduce ourselves by what we do. We spend years earning degrees, climbing ladders, building businesses, and establishing reputations. Before long, our profession isn't just something we do—it becomes who we believe we are.
At first glance, that doesn't seem like a problem. In fact, our culture often celebrates it. We admire the physician who lives at the hospital, the entrepreneur who works around the clock, the attorney who bills impossible hours, or the executive who is constantly "on." We associate that level of dedication with success.
But I've started to wonder whether we've confused dedication with identity.
There's a subtle but important difference.
Your career is something you build. Your identity is something you become.
The Stage of Practice Ownership No One Talks About
When people talk about practice ownership, the conversation usually centers around two stages.
The beginning.
And the growth phase.
The beginning is full of adrenaline. There’s the leap into entrepreneurship, the excitement of finally building something that belongs to you. After years of training and working within systems someone else created, ownership feels like freedom.
Then comes growth.
Growth is the stage everyone celebrates. More patients. Expanding teams. Increased production. New systems. New marketing strategies. Conferences and podcasts dedicated to scaling.
I’ve Been Documenting My Life Online Since 2007
You could call it a habit.
Or maybe just a quiet instinct I’ve always had.
But long before Instagram, long before personal branding became a strategy, I started documenting my life online.
It was 2007.
At the time, I was simply a student with big goals and a lot of questions about how life would unfold. My first blog was called Climb, Reach, Achieve. The name itself captured exactly where I was in that phase of life: ambitious, hopeful, focused on what was ahead.
Writing was a way to process the climb.
The Work-Life Balance Myth for Healthcare Moms and What Actually Works
If you’re a mother in healthcare, you’ve likely been sold the idea of “balance” as if the right planner, schedule, or mindset could make demanding work and motherhood feel evenly distributed. I know because I once thought this was totally doable. It’s more of a “balancing act.”
In reality? Balance is a myth, and chasing it can leave you feeling like you’re constantly falling short.
Generally speaking, healthcare is not a flexible, low-demand career. It requires presence, precision, emotional labor, and responsibility, often all at once. Motherhood demands the same. Trying to give equal energy to both at all times sets an impossible standard.
The Power of Side Hustles: Turning Passion into Profit
Side hustles have become more than just a way to make extra money—they’re a path to achieving financial freedom, discovering passions, and even building a new career. Whether you’re balancing a full-time job, managing a household, or pursuing a professional degree, starting a side hustle can give you the flexibility to work on something you love while boosting your income.
Starting a side hustle can feel overwhelming, especially if you’re already balancing a lot in your life. But it’s about taking small, consistent steps toward your goal. The world is full of opportunities, and there is a side hustle that aligns with your skills, interests, and passions.
The most important thing is to take that first step. Whether it’s writing your first blog post, listing your first product on Etsy, or signing up for a freelance platform, just begin. Who knows? One day, you might find yourself with a full-fledged business that brings you joy and financial freedom.
The Entrepreneur Trap: Designing a Business That Supports Your Life
Justin Welch once said, "The happiest entrepreneurs I know aren't the richest. They're the ones who built a business that complements their lives rather than consuming it." This statement resonates deeply with many of us who have ventured into entrepreneurship, only to find ourselves ensnared in a trap of our own making. The entrepreneur trap is the misconception that success is measured solely by revenue. In reality, true success lies in the freedom and fulfillment that comes from designing a business that supports your life. In the pursuit of entrepreneurial success, it's easy to fall into the trap of equating revenue with happiness. However, the happiest entrepreneurs are those who design their businesses to complement their lives rather than consume them. By working during your most productive times, pursuing an inspiring mission, and automating or delegating the rest, you can create a business that supports your life and brings true success in the form of freedom and fulfillment.
Beyond Labels: How Being Multifaceted Leads to True Success
Labels can limit potential and creativity. As someone who has always taken a somewhat unconventional path, I find the term “unorthodox” not just fitting, but empowering. That’s how The UnOrthoDoc was born—a reflection of my multifaceted life that defies simple categorization.
We’re often told to specialize. Get an expensive degree, secure a niche job, and stick to it for decades. While this worked in the past, the modern world demands adaptability and a broad skill set. In today’s tech-driven society, being a specialist can sometimes mean limiting your growth and opportunities. AI and automation are rapidly changing the job market, and those with narrow expertise may find themselves left behind. I say this as a specialist myself—an orthodontist, a specialty of dentistry. I get that this is contradictory. I suppose I am a walking contradiction.
How Motherhood Is Just Like Running a Business
As a mother and business owner, I’ve come to realize that the skills required to excel in both roles are strikingly similar. The multitasking, the planning, the emotional investment, and the sheer determination needed to succeed as a mother mirror the qualities necessary for running a successful business. Owning and operating an orthodontics practice, an online candle company, and a blog that has blossomed into a small business has given me unique insights into how motherhood and entrepreneurship intersect. Let’s explore the parallels between these two demanding yet rewarding roles.
By embracing the similarities between these two roles, we can draw strength from our experiences and apply valuable lessons across different areas of our lives. Whether nurturing a child or growing a business, the journey is filled with ups and downs, but the rewards are immeasurable. Let’s celebrate the parallels between motherhood and business and continue to thrive in both realms.
Slowing Down: The Secret to a Fulfilled Life
I wanted to share something that's been on my mind lately. You know, we're often caught up in the whirlwind of life—rushing from one task to another, ticking off endless to-do lists, and constantly striving for more. We live in a world that glorifies hustle culture, where busyness is worn like a badge of honor and productivity is often seen as the ultimate goal. But have you ever stopped to wonder if this relentless pace is really serving us?
In slowing down, we open ourselves up to a richer, more meaningful life. We find joy in the little things, deepen our relationships, and discover a sense of peace and contentment that hustle culture could never provide. So, let's embrace the art of slowing down and savor each moment of this beautiful journey called life
I've been reflecting on this a lot, and I've come to realize that the hustle culture we've been conditioned to embrace might actually be doing us more harm than good. It's time we consider the profound benefits of slowing down.
Avoiding Burnout
In today's fast-paced world and economic climate, the pressures of work and life responsibilities often collide, leaving many individuals feeling overwhelmed and exhausted. Burnout, a state of chronic stress characterized by feelings of exhaustion, cynicism, and reduced professional efficacy, has become increasingly prevalent in the workplace. having gone through these challenges myself, this post explores the nuances of navigating burnout, offers insights into its impact on dentistry (or healthcare in general), and provides practical strategies for combatting and yes, avoiding it.
Understanding Burnout: Burnout can manifest differently for each individual, but common symptoms include fatigue, irritability, lack of motivation, and decreased productivity. It often stems from prolonged periods of stress, unrealistic expectations, and a lack of work-life balance. In dentistry, where practitioners face demanding schedules, high patient volumes, and the pressure to deliver optimal care, burnout is a significant concern.
5 Tips for Scaling Your Side Hustle into a Successful Enterprise
With the gig economy booming and traditional employment models evolving, side hustles have become a lifeline for many individuals seeking financial security and professional fulfillment. From freelance writing and e-commerce ventures to consulting gigs and creative pursuits, there's no shortage of opportunities to turn your skills and passions into profitable ventures on the side.
But while starting a side hustle is relatively easy, scaling it into a thriving business requires a whole new level of dedication, strategy, and vision. As your side hustle gains traction and momentum, you'll inevitably face the question: "How can I take this to the next level? How do I turn my side gig into a full-blown thriving business?"
Silent Ambition: Let Your Success Speak Louder Than Your Words
Once, I excitedly shared a promising business idea with a colleague, hoping to team up and bring it to life together. Instead of collaboration, I received a polite decline. Months later, I was taken aback to discover that my colleague had launched a business—selling the very idea I had shared with her.
In a world where oversharing is the norm, where every meal and milestone is broadcasted on social media, it may seem counterintuitive to keep your ambitions under wraps. But in reality, there's immense power in working quietly and letting your success make the noise.
The Power of Contract Negotiation
Contracts represent more than mere agreements; they are the conduits through which we navigate our professional journeys. Yet, all too often, these agreements tilt in favor of one party, leaving the other to grapple with the remnants of unfulfilled potential. For women, who historically have faced unique challenges in the realm of contract negotiation, reclaiming their rightful portion of the divine plan can be a transformative act of empowerment.
Designing Your Life with Purpose and Freedom
In today’s world we often equate success with material wealth and possessions. It's easy to get caught up in the rat race of accumulation. Whether you're climbing the corporate ladder in a 9-5 job or running your own business, the pressure to chase after money and status can feel overwhelming. However, there's a different approach—one that prioritizes intentional living and designing your life around what truly matters.
Intentional living is about aligning your actions and choices with your values and goals, rather than simply going through the motions dictated by societal norms or external expectations. It's about consciously crafting a life that brings you joy, fulfillment, and a sense of purpose, regardless of your financial situation or professional aspirations.
Why I Have a Weekly family Business Meeting
In the bustle of modern life, finding a delicate balance between work and family can be akin to walking a tightrope. As an orthodontist and practice owner alongside my husband, a general dentist, with a lively two-year-old in tow, life is a constant juggling act. Amidst the myriad responsibilities, we've found a beacon of organization and harmony in an unexpected place: the weekly family business meeting.
Our family, much like a business, requires strategic planning and, most importantly, regular check-ins. The weekly family business meeting has become our compass, guiding us through the maze of tasks, appointments, and familial responsibilities. It's a designated time to synchronize our calendars, discuss the upcoming week's events, and ensure we're all on the same page.
23 Goals for 2023 End of year Check-In
As this year comes to a close, I find myself revisiting the 23 goals I set for myself in my "23 Goals for 2023" blog post at the beginning of this year. Along the way, I provided a mid-year check-in to update you on my progress, and here we are now, at the end-of-year check-in, evaluating how far I've come and what I've achieved.
2023 turned out to be more challenging than I anticipated. While I didn't quite accomplish all 23 goals I set, I managed to achieve the more meaningful ones. As the year unfolded, I had to prioritize certain things over others. It's been a year of growth, of learning to appreciate the small things, and understanding the true essence of wealth – family, health, and simple moments of joy.
Books I Read In 2023
As an enthusiastic reader, diving into a captivating book brings me immense joy. The act of losing oneself within the pages of a book offers relaxation and a myriad of benefits, such as expanding knowledge, enhancing brain function, improving focus and memory, providing entertainment, fostering empathy, refining communication skills, and reducing stress – among other positive impacts that extend to mental health and longevity.
In the span of 2023, I set out to conquer the challenge of reading 23 books. Admittedly, my life has taken on a different pace this year, juggling responsibilities as a mother and a business/practice owner. Despite the time constraints, I'm thrilled to share that I delved into 20 books this year, with 12 of them shared within the context of my book club. Navigating this busy schedule, I found solace in audiobooks – an aspect that enriched my reading experience in unexpected ways. Embracing audiobooks became a game-changer; they allowed me to multitask, enabling me to engage with books while carrying out various activities throughout the day. The flexibility and convenience they offer are truly remarkable.
Discovering True Wealth: The New Rich
In a world often measured by financial wealth, the concept of true richness extends beyond bank accounts and possessions. It’s about acknowledging the overlooked treasures that enrich our lives, nurturing our spirits and granting us a sense of fulfillment. Welcome to "The New Rich," where abundance transcends monetary figures and instead resides in the simple yet profound aspects of existence.
What if our genuine wealth is rooted in the things we often take for granted? Imagine waking up to a sunrise, feeling the gentle morning breeze, or savoring the aroma of freshly brewed coffee. These simple pleasures, often overlooked in the rush of daily life, compose the fabric of true richness. It's about relishing the unhurried moments that embrace our souls, granting us a profound sense of fulfillment.
Things to Consider When Starting a Private Practice
For healthcare professionals, the idea of opening a private practice in the medical field is both thrilling and potentially life-changing. Whether you are a doctor, therapist, dentist, or another type of healthcare professional, operating your practice holds out the prospect of both personal and professional pleasure. However, this project demands careful preparation and reflective consideration. Therefore, here are a few things you need to know before launching a solo practice, so take these things into consideration right now.