Books I Read in 2021

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Written By Dr. Patrice Smith

I love a good book! I am an avid reader and for as long as I can remember one of my favorite hobbies has been curling up on the couch with fuzzy socks on and a great book. Forget Netflix! For a while now every year I set a goal to read at least one book per month (12 books per year). Sometimes I can get two or three in depending on the size of the book and the amount of time I have, but at the end of the year that number should at least be twelve (never less). In 2021 I read 14 books and I am sharing with you some of those with you, along with a few that are on my current on my reading list.

1.The 4 Hour Work Week // 2. We should all be Millionaires //

3. Set Boundaries Find Peace // 4. Influencer // 5. Believe It //

6. 18 Minutes

1.The Vanishing Half // 2. Your Time To Thrive // 3. Think Like A Breadwinner //

4. Beyond Entrepeneurship // 5. Simple Be. // 6. Get Good with Money

1.What happened to you // 2. Play Bigger // 3. Between Two Worlds //

4. Superfans // 5. Super Consumers // 6. Scrum

Want to read along with me every month? I created a book club for book lovers like myself. It’ll be a place to discuss each month’s read as well as a place for networking and community. Join the club and grab this month’s read. See you inside!

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